I think I may be the only non-friend here, so I will delurk and say hello! I love reading your journal. The way your celebrate each of your kids' uniqueness is so inspiring.

I plan to adopt someday and my husband and I discussed this before we got married. What I wonder about is was it more challenging to adopt an older child? We plan to adopt from our home country (India) and it will likely be a 4-5 year old. My husband thinks a younger child may be easier and is open to adopting from other countries, but I am somehow attached to the idea of an Indian child. We am still thinking through all these issues and examining
our biases..