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Sep. 28th, 2007 10:19 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I have protected my children from the mainstream media to some degree. They watch PBS kids and Noggin. They watch parent selected movies from Netflix. But for the most part they've been protected from a lot that their peers know about. We listen to an eclectic mix of music around here, everything from classical and jazz to the college angst music of Brad's and my younger days, quite a bit of Orthodox liturgical music and, of course, the requisite Raffi and Laurie Berkner Band.
However, I think I've made a grave mistake in this department. Flipping channels one day several months ago, I paused on the Disney channel just in time to see and hear the Hannah Montana song "Nobody's Perfect". I thought it was a fun, upbeat song, with a good message. One Maria needed to hear. So I looked it up on Youtube and played it for her the next day. I should have realized what I was unleashing...but I didn't at the time. I thought it was innocent fun.
Maria and Luci have both become obsessed. I ended up downloading the Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus album. Maria listens to it whenever I will allow it. The emotional intensity of her rockin' with Miley is something to behold. This is bubblegum pop at its worst, wholesome and somewhat mindless, sucking you in and forcing you to tap toes and wiggle your head. But I can't laugh. Maria is very serious about this music.
Luci is the funny one. Nearly everyday she asks to watch Hannah Montana videos and, if I allow it, she then gives me the speech: "When I am big like her, I'm going to dance and sing on a stage like that too. Can I mom?" Which leads to an hour of Luci in her finest fairy regalia, leaping around the room with a hairbrush microphone, singing at the top of her lungs. My four year old wants to be a rock star.
What have I done?
However, I think I've made a grave mistake in this department. Flipping channels one day several months ago, I paused on the Disney channel just in time to see and hear the Hannah Montana song "Nobody's Perfect". I thought it was a fun, upbeat song, with a good message. One Maria needed to hear. So I looked it up on Youtube and played it for her the next day. I should have realized what I was unleashing...but I didn't at the time. I thought it was innocent fun.
Maria and Luci have both become obsessed. I ended up downloading the Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus album. Maria listens to it whenever I will allow it. The emotional intensity of her rockin' with Miley is something to behold. This is bubblegum pop at its worst, wholesome and somewhat mindless, sucking you in and forcing you to tap toes and wiggle your head. But I can't laugh. Maria is very serious about this music.
Luci is the funny one. Nearly everyday she asks to watch Hannah Montana videos and, if I allow it, she then gives me the speech: "When I am big like her, I'm going to dance and sing on a stage like that too. Can I mom?" Which leads to an hour of Luci in her finest fairy regalia, leaping around the room with a hairbrush microphone, singing at the top of her lungs. My four year old wants to be a rock star.
What have I done?
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Date: 2007-09-28 02:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-09-28 03:01 pm (UTC)It is so funny to see the kids dancing around using just about anything as a pretend microphone.
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Date: 2007-09-28 03:43 pm (UTC)I don't mind it, but I don't really like how they exactly copy her mannerisms and "show-offiness". They shake their hips and do her kind of snotty-cool faces. Not so attractive on a little three year old. But the six and seven year olds can do pretty amazing song and dance routines :) They can do just about everything from "High School Musical."
I feel so behind. I've not seen Hannah Montana OR High School Musical.
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Date: 2007-09-28 03:48 pm (UTC)I actually really like High school musical. I've played some of the music for the girls, but they did not get as into it as good ole Hannah.
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Date: 2007-09-29 01:28 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-09-28 08:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-09-28 10:12 pm (UTC):D
Have a good weekend!
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Date: 2007-09-28 11:40 pm (UTC)Death by bubblegum pop. Is that possible?
I hope you have a good weekend too!
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Date: 2007-09-29 01:30 am (UTC)Someone once asked them how their kids music was any different than their regular stuff. They said, "we talk about death a lot less." Otherwise, pretty much the same :)
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Date: 2007-09-29 03:43 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-09-30 01:52 am (UTC)I was shocked the my daughter was interested in the Barbie scene a couple yeas ago because she didn't own any and hadn't watched any of the Barbie stuff. She decided that when she grew up, she wanted to be a Barbie rock-star. *pukes* She was seeing all the Barbie crap at school.
I told her that I'd rather her be a punk rock star with a lip ring, a pink mohawk and black leather clothes with metal studs on them than to be an anorexic, stuck up and materialistic Barbie pop-star type. I'd rather have her be more of an individual with a statement than to be the horrid norm that most of our teenagers are becoming.
The next year, she learned a quick bit about Susan B. Anthony at school and told me she wanted to be a feminist. SCORE! That's my girl.
This year, she told me that wants to be a wife, mom and artist. I'm okay with that, too, as long as she's not someone's doormat.